I am super lucky because I don’t need to fork out money to get gifts or buy dinner as I don’t celebrate Fathers Day. Every Father’s Day is just another day which existed in the Calender, and it’s also a special day for me to remember and write angry stuff about my ‘Deady’, Happy Deady Day ,Mr Tony suck my dog's balls.
But this year I will like to write from my heart and so I hereby dedicate this post to my Late Grandfather
He was …
The one who came to my rescue each time I misbehave and was about to get a hell of wacking from my grandma or my mum.
The one who bought me Doraemon comics
The one came all the way to school on a hot sunny day even if it’s by bus just to send me my school books that I left at home
The one who taught me how to ride my bicycle,The one who cleaned my wound when I crashed my bike the next day
The one who would get up in the morning and make me his special Longan tea with egg and rock sugar for my birthdays…my 21st Birthday was the last time I had the taste of it…
The one who send me to school and sat next to me in the bus during the days when we dont own a car
The one who taught me every values and lessons which I need to know about life.
The one who will say ‘’Be good , you’re one year older , I wonder how many more years everyone can get to sit and eat together like now’’ , he said that every year during Reunion Dinner..
The one who drove the whole family on road trips during Chinese New Year, in fact he was the one who drove everyone everywhere..
The one would rather not eat and save all the good food for me
The one that I watch every Olympics, Commenwalth and badminton games with.
I was clueless most of the time, and he would explain to me about the players and the countries they represent. He did not make it to watch 2008’s Olympics and this year’s World Cup which was his favorite…
The one I hurt so badly when I grew up and turned into a rebellious monster
The one whose love I took for granted for all this years
The one who I scream and yell at when we had fights
The one who shed tears because of the hurtful things I’ve said when im angry…..
The one who I misses so much, the one who I cried thinking about before I close my eyes and sleep.
The one who suffers from pain alone because of the selfishness and ignorant of his family including me….
The one whom everyone said was a good man when they attended his funeral ….
The one and only Dad I had and need in my life…'Dta Jaa' ( dear grandpa in Thai )
Dear Ah Kong , there are many times when I got so angry I yelled at you and said I wish you’re not my grandfather, I wish I could take all that back now…I wish I could just tell you that I am sorry and I love you. There is not a single day I live where I don’t think about you. I miss you ..Happy Fathers Day ah kong.
You are the Best Man in my life.
Not forgetting my Wondermum who has played the role of mum and also Dad for the past 24 years :)
♫ Of the Moment : The Beatles - In My Life